March 6, 2025

Flipping Feedback: What Happens When Workplaces Focus on What's Strong?

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—œ๐—ณ ๐—ช๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—–๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—ฏ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€ ๐—Ÿ๐—ถ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€?

In yoga philosophy, thereโ€™s a concept called muditaโ€”finding joy in the happiness and success of others. In Vipassana meditation, we send out positive energy: ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ฑ๐˜ฑ๐˜บ. ๐˜”๐˜ข๐˜บ ๐˜ข๐˜ญ๐˜ญ ๐˜ฃ๐˜ฆ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜ด ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ฆ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ค๐˜ฆ.

At home, my family has a simple ritualโ€”we reflect on the character strengths weโ€™ve seen in each other. Kindness, perseverance, humour, wisdomโ€”we focus on whatโ€™s strong, not whatโ€™s wrong.

Imagine if we did this at work.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต-๐—•๐—ฎ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—Ÿ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ฝ

According to Martin Seligmanโ€™s research in positive psychology, we all have ๐Ÿฎ๐Ÿฐ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€, ๐˜€๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜‚๐—ฝ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€. Through group discussions on strengths, weโ€™ve uncovered powerful insights that could transform workplaces:
1๏ธโƒฃ ๐—”๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐——๐—ถ๐—ณ๐—ณ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐Ÿ†
We all bring unique strengths to the tableโ€”leadership, creativity, empathy, curiosity. Recognising this helps us appreciate diversity in contribution, not just background.
2๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ก๐—ผ ๐—›๐—ถ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐˜† ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€ โš–๏ธ
Wisdom isnโ€™t better than humour. Creativity isnโ€™t superior to perseverance. Yet, corporate success often prioritises a narrow set of traits. What if we valued all strengths equally?
3๏ธโƒฃ ๐—™๐—น๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—™๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฑ๐—ฏ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ธ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—œ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐Ÿ”„
Workplace feedback tends to focus on weaknessesโ€”"areas for improvement." But research shows we thrive when we amplify what weโ€™re naturally good at.
4๏ธโƒฃ ๐—ฆ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐˜๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐—จ๐˜€ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐Ÿ‘€
When we call out strengths in others, we donโ€™t just uplift themโ€”we start embodying those qualities too. Strength-spotting creates a culture of appreciation and growth.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—”๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—–๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜๐—ต๐˜€?
๐Ÿ’ก Take the VIA Character Strengths Test to find out! https://lnkd.in/duPgKhhq
๐Ÿ’ก Tag a colleague and let them know what strength you appreciate in them today. ๐Ÿš€

At Kholo, we believe workplaces should be built on strength, trust, and recognitionโ€”not just performance metrics.

๐Ÿ‘‡ Whatโ€™s one strength you value most in your team? Letโ€™s start the conversation.

#Leadership #StrengthBasedCulture #PositivePsychology #FutureOfWork #Kholo #Mudita

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